Resources, reflections, and research on relationships, joy, identity, and what it means to actually flourish — from a queer, somatic, pleasure-affirming perspective.
Five years in relationship with plant medicine has taught me something no training manual could: integration isn't a process you complete. It's a relationship you keep showing up to.
Polycule coaching isn't just couples coaching with more people. Here's how I approach the beautiful, complex work of holding an entire relationship constellation.
Pleasure isn't something you pursue — it's something you allow. And the doorway is almost always presence.
We've inherited the idea that real growth requires suffering. What happens when we question that — and what if delight is actually the faster path?
Conflict isn't the opposite of intimacy — it can be the doorway to it. Here's why turning toward friction might be one of the most loving things you can do.
Anxiety isn't just an alarm to shut off — it's carrying important information. Here's how to listen to it differently.
Most relationship conflicts aren't about what they seem to be about. Learning to see the underlying need changes everything.
Simple, body-based tools you can use anywhere — no meditation cushion required.
Reflections on queer life, joy, relationships, the body, and the inner life — including contemplative practice and psychedelic integration. Occasional, thoughtful, never spam.
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